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Go to http://surfshark.com/jessica or use code JESSICA at checkout to get 4 extra months of Surfshark VPN! Vintage marriage advice is… something else! Today, my gorgeous wife and I react to old-fashioned marriage advice from the early 1900s through the 1950s- some of it surprisingly thoughtful, most of it deeply unhinged. From being told to keep quiet when your husband gets home to maintaining your appearance even during illness, let's read, react, and unpack what marriage advice used to look like. But does it tell us anything about gender roles, disability, or queer relationships today? Or should all “traditional” advice belong in the past? 00:00 Vintage marriage advice was a mistake 1:10 The wife's job (is to plan ahead) 4:12 Surfshark AD 6:25 Being quiet when your husband gets home 7:20 Let him think he is the boss 9:10 Respect v Affection 10:26 Keep Yourself Attractive, despite the ableism 13:56 Absolutely the worst one! 14:34 Shockingly good marriage advice? 15:44 What this says about marriage today 💬 What’s the worst relationship advice you’ve ever been given? And did you believe it at the time...? 📚 Sources include vintage advice manuals, women’s magazines, and etiquette books from 1909–1955. ✨ Subscribe for vintage history, queer joy, disability advocacy, and joyful “edu-taining” content. My BRAND NEW MERCH store: https://jessicaoutofthecloset.myshopify.com/ If you'd like to send the twins a baby gift, please consider donating to their nappy stock- they're very grateful! https://ko-fi.com/jessicaoutofthecloset FOLLOW ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Instagram ➭ https://www.instagram.com/JessicaOutOfTheCloset TikTok ➭ https://www.tiktok.com/@jessicaoutofthecloset Facebook ➭ https://www.facebook.com/JessicaOutOfTheCloset Threads ➭ https://www.threads.net/@jessicaoutofthecloset Find my filming equipment on my Amazon store: UK ➭ https://amzlink.to/az0yCIyQyduqS US ➭ https://amzlink.to/az0uHJvmBASLD How to JOIN the Kellgren-Fozard Club and SPONSOR this channel ➭ https://www.youtube.com/c/JessicaKellgrenFozard/join If you've enjoyed this video then feel free to buy me a drink to show your support! ➭ https://ko-fi.com/A1814A5T Music by Epidemic Sound ➭ http://share.epidemicsound.com/mvszv