For Hers Insane

#foryou #podcast #ad Feel like your best self again. Visit https://forhers.com/insane to get a personalized, affordable plan that gets you. -We're All Insane Plus for Bonus Episodes, Ad-Free Listening, Access to New Show, Guided Mediations: https://wereallinsane.com - Join We’re All Insane Mailing List for EXCLUSIVE Content + Discounts: https://mailchi.mp/6d0e5d7a3998/were-all-insane Clark, a New Jersey man who was sentenced after confessing to killing the man who abused him as a child, breaks down the history between himself and Dennis Pegg, the allegations that went ignored for years, and the moment that led Fredericks to take matters into his own hands. It’s a heavy story about trauma, justice, and what happens when accusations are never fully addressed. Clark's Links: Clark's Book: https://a.co/d/01E2Q4Jl IG: https://www.instagram.com/clarkfredericks/ Podcast: https://www.freelike-me.com/podcast Time Stamps: 00:00:00 Who is the man who killed his childhood abuser and why did he do it 00:02:12 What happens when childhood sexual abuse goes unspoken for decades 00:04:05 How can someone survive abuse, addiction, and prison and rebuild their life 00:06:31 What are the long-term effects of childhood sexual abuse on mental health 00:09:35 How do predators groom children and gain their trust 00:12:10 Why do so many abuse victims keep secrets for years 00:15:42 What happens psychologically when a child is manipulated by someone they trust 00:19:08 Why do many abuse victims blame themselves for what happened 00:23:30 How does trauma from childhood abuse affect adult relationships 00:28:14 How do drugs and alcohol become coping mechanisms for trauma 00:34:52 What happens when trauma leads someone down a path of addiction 00:40:21 How does unresolved trauma lead to destructive life choices 00:47:05 What was the breaking point that changed everything in his life 00:54:33 Why do some abuse survivors fantasize about revenge 01:00:12 What was going through his mind the night he confronted his abuser 01:05:48 What actually happened the night he killed the man who abused him 01:09:45 What did he say to his abuser moments before killing him 01:12:20 Why revenge didn’t heal the trauma from abuse 01:16:05 What happened immediately after the murder 01:20:44 How did the police eventually arrest him 01:26:40 What was it like being put in jail for killing his abuser 01:32:15 What is prison really like for someone carrying years of trauma 01:39:27 How did he begin healing while serving time in prison 01:46:52 Why revenge does not bring peace to trauma survivors 01:55:18 What helped him finally start healing from decades of abuse 02:03:11 How can abuse survivors take back control of their lives 02:10:33 What advice does he give to people who want revenge on their abusers 02:16:40 How did sharing his story help him find purpose after prison 02:20:45 Why stories of trauma, revenge, and redemption resonate with so many people If you have a unique story you'd like to share on the podcast, please fill out this form: https://forms.gle/ZiHgdoK4PLRAddiB9 or send an email to wereallinsanepodcast@gmail.com