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Published: February 21, 2026
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For the past year, I’ve been slowly rebuilding my relationship with my phone.
I considered buying a flip phone. I went down the analog rabbit hole. I romanticized flip phones, iPods, paper planners, film cameras — the whole digital minimalism fantasy.
And then I remembered I live in London. There are QR codes here, WhatsApp and moments when an Uber is not indulgent, it’s survival.
So I kept my perfectly good iPhone and changed my relationship with it.
I started experimenting with friction — making my iPhone slightly more inconvenient. Fewer notifications. No social media on my phone. Music on an iPod. A watch instead of “just checking the time.” Paper calendars. Film photography. Turning off autocorrect. Creating boundaries around social media instead of pretending willpower would save me.
This isn’t a rejection of technology, it’s an attempt to be more intentional with it.
If you’ve been curious about analog living, digital minimalism, spending less time mindlessly scrolling, or whether a dumb phone would magically fix your attention span — this is what actually happened when I tried to change my habits instead of my hardware.
You don’t have to delete the internet.
You just have to stop treating your phone like oxygen.
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ABOUT ME:
Hi! 🙋🏼♀️
I’m Ash – a writer, content creator, and movie lover with a penchant for the nostalgic. I spend more time talking to my dog than actual humans, and when I’m not arguing with fictional characters, my days are spent writing endless drafts or down movie-related rabbit holes. In this little corner of the internet, I share my love for storytelling, the ups and downs of my creative process, and the sometimes ridiculous, often relatable moments that come with being a 30-something and not having it all figured out.